Organizing a trip for two is always fun and sometimes can be quite a task, especially when looking for a destination that is friendly to the queer community. Being a lover of traveling and all things romantic, I’ve been to so many places around the world and am always on the lookout for those places that make people’s hearts dance. In this article, I add to my best-kept secrets for the 10 most fabulous destinations for the LGBTQ traveler who wants passion and adventure.
From the tropical coastlines of Hawaii to the electrifying cities of New York and the calming forests of Whistler, the globe is full of ideas for lovers. If you are the newlyweds on your honeymoons or have been married for some time and need a spark in your marital life, I have you sorted. Therefore, hold your loved one’s hand and let us explore some of the most inspiring and accessible romantic destinations in the world.
What is the Most Romantic Vacation Spot?
There is no such thing as an ideal location, but one that makes both individuals feel a strong bond with each other or the place that makes them happy. I’m sure the majority of LGBTQ couples will agree that their ideal romantic getaway spot must be a place that accommodates diversity, has great views, and allows for couple-only activities. These kinds of locations are the ones where people can be themselves with no restraints and no questions asked, therefore providing a perfect chance for love to grow.
For others, the idea of love can be as simple as a couple strolling barefoot along a deserted beach in Thailand with fine sand and clear blue waters. Imagine strolling at the beach during the golden hour holding hands, while listening to the messages of love in the wind while sipping on the fruity love of your union. Some may look for it in the city of love, Paris, which has narrow streets that ooze romance with small cafes and famous art galleries that provoke meaningful conversations and shared experiences.
This kind of destination might attract nature enthusiasts who wish to spend their honeymoon in the middle of the rainforests of Costa Rica in an eco-lodge. Picture being able to open your curtains in the morning to the chatter of birds, going out for daring treks hand in hand, and then savoring delicious meals in the moonlight. For those who are excited about city life, places like New York or Barcelona are ideal for romance because they have diverse LGBTQ-friendly activities, exquisite cuisine and a number of cultural attractions that can be explored and shared.
What is a Romance Resort?
A romance resort is luxury accommodation that is built exclusively for couples who want to spend their time in privacy and passion. These special lodgings are more than just your usual hotels, as they provide additional features and provisions that improve the intimacy of couples. As soon as you step into this place, everything is designed to make you feel loved and comfortable so that your entire attention can be given to each other.
Picture yourself in a world where privacy and luxury are at the forefront of what is possible. Almost all romance resorts provide private villas or overwater bungalows, which are individual spaces with individual pools or hot tubs or direct beach frontage. These settings offer a great location for lovers to come together and get closer without the various disturbances that fringe their lives.
Food and dining services are some of the most memorable aspects of a stay in one of the romance resorts. Think about romantic evenings with candle lights on the beach, intimate cooking lessons where you and your loved one can cook delicious meals of the country, or even room service so that you can taste delicious meals without leaving your room for two. Most of the resorts also have added extra facilities such as champagne on arrival, rose bath, or any other favorite items according to the couples’ wish.
It is common for the romance resort to include wellness and relaxation as part of the services offered. Spouses can get a massage together, have a treatment with essential oils or attend yoga classes for couples. Many of the resorts also have special activities like the stargazing or the sunset dinner cruise, which are meant to make the couple’s memories special.
LGBTQ couples need to ensure that the romance resorts chosen are not just accepting but also safe and friendly for everyone involved. Most of the luxury resorts worldwide have embraced the culture of welcoming gay and lesbian clientele, and anyone who comes to the resort is welcome. LGBTQ-friendly romance resorts provide staff training and use promotional materials to make sure that everybody is welcome and can celebrate love.
How can I be Romantic on a Weekend Getaway?
By creating some special and deep links with your partner. As you will notice, it is not difficult to have a good dose of love and affection even in a few days. The main point is to be there, to be thinkable and ready for improvisation. It is advisable to have some of the planned activities in mind but also allow for some free time and explore the unknown as the best times are often made when least expected.
It is also advisable to make your partner’s surprise from time to time during the trip to make him or her feel special. This could be as basic as waking up to an ‘I love you’ note, having their preferred flowers delivered to the room as they arrive, or organizing a certain activity that you know they have always wanted to do. These little touches prove to your partner that you have taken your time and effort to make the weekend special for him or her.
Use the elements in your environment to make your partner have romantic feelings for you. If you are in a city, order a bottle of wine and some food for two and sit in a rooftop bar watching the sunset. In a more relaxed environment, prepare a meal and go to a quiet area with a stunning view of nature. The key message here is that trust is built when you engage in those moments where you are able to have private talks and spend time together.
Do not underestimate the value of the couple lying down and paying attention solely to each other. Switch off the phones and leave them in the hotel room, and have a nice time together without any interference. Go for a stroll, go out to eat at a new place, or just lock yourself up in your room with a book or a movie. Rather, a lot of love can be seen in these neutral, mundane activities.
Conclusion
In this tour of romantic LGBTQ destinations, we have learned what it takes to have the perfect couples’ vacation. Starting from the most romantic locations, defining what makes some hotels and resorts particularly romantic, to learning about weekend romance, we have revealed the key points of organizing a perfect date for two. Remember, it is the experiences that you have together that define how romantic your holiday was.
For those seeking more inspiration, I invite you to explore our articles on Romantic Wine Country Escapes for Gay Couples and A Guide to a Romantic LGBTQ Parisian Adventure. These guides offer deeper dives into specific romantic experiences tailored for LGBTQ couples.
As you plan your next romantic escape, don’t forget to check out the wealth of information available on Gay Couple Getaway. Our site is full of destination guides, travel tips, and firsthand stories of safe and welcoming travel as an LGBTQ+ traveler. With the desire to lie on the white sandy beach, explore the rich culture of cities, or have a thrilling time in a mountainous country, we have got you covered!
Well, then, what are you waiting for? Begin your dream romantic vacation now. Love is a beautiful sentiment that is said to be blind, but when it comes to traveling, there should be no blindness to any opportunity. Cheers to making wonderful moments with your special someone, no matter the destination you’ll have set. Happy travels, lovebirds!
