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Three Naughty Weekend Ideas For Gay Couples

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A naughty weekend getaway could be just the thing if you are celebrating an anniversary or if you just want some quality time. Whatever the reason, some of the world’s most LGBTQ+-friendly destinations will be ideal for gay couples looking for romance and a splash of excitement.

From the pulsating nightlife of Berlin to the charming canals of Amsterdam and the lively scene of San Francisco, here we present a perfect itinerary for couples. This is for those who want to enjoy an exciting and a little naughty adventure. Pack your bags, leave your inhibitions at home, and get ready for a whirlwind tour of three cities that will give you and your partner experiences you’ll never forget.

Berlin: A Playground for the Adventurous

Start your naughty weekend in Berlin with its uninhibited spirit and rich LGBTQ+ history. Start your adventure with a check-in to a design-loving hotel in the center of Kreuzberg or Schöneberg, famous for its gay scenes. During your first day, you can stroll around the area and enter pretty shops and cozy cafes. Before the exciting weekend ahead, treat yourself to a memorable evening with a romantic meal at one of Berlin’s Michelin-starred restaurants as the sun sets.

Day two is about balancing culture with hedonism. After a morning tour of famous sights such as the Brandenburg Gate and the Reichstag building, you can move to one of Vienna’s many cultural sites. Afternoon beach suits end at the Schwules Museum for a dive into LGBTQ+ history, where fair treatment for all varietals is a central philosophy. Before the sun sets, pack out your bag for one of the incredible Berlin nightclubs. If you fancy going wild with your partner, then Berghain and KitKat Club are must-see clubs. However, you will have to put up with strict door policies and long queues.

Our friends at the Rainbow Explorer did a brilliant tour of gay Berlin, check it out below!

Finish off your Berlin with a lazy Sunday. Walk off a delicious casual brunch at a wonderful little café, then take your date to the dazzling city views of the Viktoriapark for a romantic picnic. Spend your last afternoon browsing the eclectic shops and galleries in Prenzlauer Berg. Finish off your Berlin stay with a night at a rooftop bar for the send-off. Have a dinner toast to your Berlin escapades while looking out over this twinkling city.

Amsterdam: Romance on the Canals

Amsterdam is a city that has a liberal attitude towards sexuality. Combined with romantic charm, it’s a city that’s perfect for your naughty weekend tour. The best way to start your visit is to stay in a canal-side hotel and get into a relaxed atmosphere. Visit the infamous Red Light District, walk through sex shops, and see the city’s take on legalized prostitution. Time your romantic dinner cruise along Amsterdam’s beautiful canals and winding streets to end your first night. Steal a kiss from your date.

On day two, walk a balance between naughty and nice with the Anne Frank House, a sober reminder of the city’s many complicated histories. You can then lighten the mood with a picnic in the beautiful Vondelpark, a park to relax and people-watch. In the evening, head to De Pijp, Amsterdam’s gay district. There, you’ll find a veritable plethora of bars and clubs catering to the LGBTQ+ community. Come night and see the island people dance and mingle with locals and other travelers of the island.

We want you to leave Amsterdam in the best and funkiest possible way, so rent bikes for the day. Casually cruise around the city’s canals and streets and soak up the local flavor. The Rijksmuseum is home to masterpieces by Dutch artists, and art lovers shouldn’t miss it. Enjoy some leisurely balcony brunch at a small café before saying goodbye to Amsterdam.

San Francisco: Where Love is Love

By now, you know we LOVE San Francisco, a city where you feel most at home because it’s synonymous with LGBTQ+ rights and culture. When the Castro District comes to mind as the heart of San Francisco’s gay community, check into a stylish hotel in the area to make it your base. On the first day, explore the area’s weird-looking shops, fun bars, and welcoming vibe. After a long day, treat yourself to a romantic supper at a waterfront restaurant where you can toast to your love next to the iconic Golden Gate Bridge.

Day two is about experiencing San Francisco’s most famous attractions with a twist. Take the cab ride to the top of Lombard Street, which is one of the crooked streets in the world. Head from there to the Golden Gate Bridge for a romantic walk and breath taking views. In the afternoon check out the hued Mission District with its Mural’s and fantastic Mexican food. There’s plenty of space in this neighborhood for stolen moments and playtime.

On your final day, embrace San Francisco’s free spirit and visit Baker Beach. This popular nude beach is rather shabby but provides a liberating experience for couples that want to bear it all and have stunning ocean views! When the sun goes down on your naughty weekend, head back to the Castro for one last night of revelry. Go to one of the many gay bars and clubs in the area. Dance, drink, celebrate your love, and make memories that will stick with you even after you’ve left.

Conclusion

A naughty weekend getaway is a sure way to reignite the spark in your relationship. Pick the edgy nightlife of Berlin, the romantic canals of Amsterdam, or the inclusive vibe of San Francisco. Slowly but surely, these cities are becoming a gay couple’s favorite places to visit. They provide the right cultural experiences, romantic moments, and opportunities for adventure we crave. Remember, a naughty weekend only works if you get outside of your comfort zone a little. Try something new together and especially have fun!

For more inspiration on LGBTQ+-friendly travel destinations and tips for planning your next couples’ getaway, be sure to check out our other articles on Gay Couple Getaway. We’re here to help you create unforgettable memories with the one you love, one adventure at a time. So pack your bags, grab your partner, and get ready for a weekend of love, laughter, and a little bit of naughtiness!

Author: Steve

Steve is a UK based LGBTQ travel blogger dedicated to sharing travel experiences, tips and insights for his community. From destination guides to travel tips, he curates essential resources for gay couples and queer families.

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